Saturday, December 25, 2010

Morality:

Morality:

Morality refers to an adopted code of conduct within an environment and a set of agreed upon rules for what is 'right' and 'wrong'. Morals have formed the spine of modern society, religion and every individual's conscience. The conceptions changed in time and take on a new meaning. For example, 'murder is immoral', but 'on the battlefield murder is permissible'. In a way, morality is in sync with ethics. While one is abstract in understanding, the other is defined and in the form of written code. Morality addresses the ethical queries on the moral outcome of a specific situation. The code of conduct formulated probes prohibitions, controversial behavior, standards of belief systems and social conformity of morally 'right' behavior.

Moral codes define 'appropriate' and 'expected' activity. Community morality is usually defined via commentaries and codes of authority. Morality is better understood as an assimilation of beliefs about the essentials to lead a 'good' life. It is not to be confused with religious or fanatic or political preception. Moral codes are based on value systems that have been tried and tested. The best examples of moral codes include the Eightfold Path of
Buddhism and the Ten commandments. It is believed that all of us, throughout our lives, act from a developing moral core.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Make Your Family’s Values Clear

Make Your Family’s Values Clear
Values are cultivated in the family and learned in time and with proper guidance.
Family values are often defined as a set of beliefs that can help provide for family unity. These are beliefs, moral or social, that holds the family together. Spiritual values, like in the saying that the family that prays together stays together, clearly define this unity value. Others also say that family comes first in everything that they do. This is a positive moral value that must be adopted ideally by people.

In the early years, there were so many beliefs that can be considered obsolete nowadays. Women were denied their rights, unmarried men were considered homosexuals, wife beating was no considered wrong because they were masochist – a lot more can be enumerated. But most of these are already considered things of the past.

Traditional family values changes with cultural changes adopted by people. Political or economic developments may have an effect on cultural change. The traditionally poor who are now financially well-off may have a possibility of getting lesser moral values. Spirituality also may lessen and materialism may get into the lives of people.

This situation should not get into people’s minds. Although family values may vary from one family to another, the setting of values which are continually communicated to the different family members will be permanently instilled in their minds. Young kids will not have difficulty in absorbing these, and parents showing the way will always be a good example.

Since the family is the most basic unit of society, a healthy functioning family should develop good and healthy family values. Those values that can be looked up to by most people and most families as well are most ideal. Our social values are most often reinforced by our spiritual beliefs and traditions. Fear in God makes man follow the right path and with the head of the family showing these, the whole family will likely to follow.

Family time which includes playtime for the whole family creates a healthy bond that ties them strongly together. This is a perfect time for sharing family values, and working together with your family can create and identify new values learned.

Family values can be a foundation on how your children will grow. Teach them and support them correctly and they will be good future citizens. Take time to share your family values and traditions with your kids.

Your kids, having acquired healthy family values, will forever be grateful to having you as their parents. Their future will be assured since they were always guided to follow the right path. Moral ascendancy was always shown by their parents, hence they will forever be righteous in everything they do. And this tradition can be handed down to the generations that follow.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Core values of life

Core values of life

For all human beings - the core values or key values are very much the same.

Freedom

To do what they love to do and need to do

Free choice

To select from infinite options life offers always the one option best suitable for your needs

Freedom of love

To love how and who they want

Freedom of progressing

Moving to other locations is but a means to most efficiently achieve spiritual goals often subconsciously aware. The innermost spiritual core of each human knows the spiritual ( religious ) needs to re-gain freedom or to learn to love in order to regain freedom. Hence the inner driving force to achieve such most efficient spiritual progress requires absolute freedom to meet, see, socialize with all those being part of your learning process or your dissolving and spiritual healing process.

Freedom of meeting and socializing

To meet, love, marry and have friends who ever you select and whatever their nationality or location may be.

Freedom of truth-finding

To know the absolute truth about everything. To know about God and our origin, to know how to return the most efficient and most direct way, to know all spiritual rules and laws, to know how to achieve our inner and outer freedom and to regain our spiritual power, freedom, peace and love potential.

Freedom of self realization and God realization

To become one with God, return home to our eternal home. To truly know who we are and know our past and future - to know all about our true eternal origin and nature of our being and to live it again in oneness with God.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Inspiration

  • ) Many yearn for success, but often do not have specific ambition. It is not enough to desire success. You must have a target that you want to achieve. Each ambition quote on this page reminds us of the need to have a goal that we can walk towards.
In order to succeed, we must first believe that we can. In any moment of decision the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.
  • When ability exceeds ambition, or ambition exceeds ability, the likelihood of success is limited.
  • We are told that talent creates its own opportunities. But it sometimes seems that intense desire creates not only its own opportunities, but its own talents.
  • We don't grow unless we take risks. Any successful company is riddled with failures.
  • We owe a lot to Thomas Edison - if it wasn't for him, we'd be watching television by candlelight.
  • We were born to succeed, not to fail.
  • We will often find compensation if we think more of what life has given us and less about what life has taken away.
  • Whatever you vividly imagine, ardently desire, sincerely believe, and enthusiastically act upon... must inevitably come to pass!

  • If you hear a voice within you say "you cannot paint," then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.
  • If you want to be successful, find someone who has achieved the results you want and copy what they do and you'll achieve the same results.
  • If you want to leave footprints in the sands of time, don't drag your feet.
  • If you want to succeed, you should strike out on new paths rather than travel the worn paths of accepted success.
  • If you work just for money, you'll never make it. But if you love what you are doing, and always put the customer first, success will be yours.
  • If your work is becoming uninteresting, so are you. Work is an inanimate thing and can be made lively and interesting only by injecting yourself into it. Your job is only as big as you are.
  • Inspiration usually comes during work, rather than before it.


    • Instead of thinking about where you are, think about where you want to be. It takes twenty years of hard work to become an overnight success.
    • It is better to wear out than to rust out.




  •    It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.




  • It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed.




    • We may think that we know what success is, because we tend to define success as if it were a goal. In reality success is more of a journey than a destination. Read these famous quotes about success to find out more.

    • There is no use whatever trying to help people who do not help themselves. You cannot push anyone up a ladder unless he be willing to climb himself.

    • This one step - choosing a goal and sticking to it - changes everything.

    • To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but at what he aspires to. 

    • What mankind wants is not talent; it is purpose.

    • When a goal matters enough to a person, that person will find a way to accomplish what at first seemed impossible.

    • When a man does not know what harbor he is making for, no wind is the right wind.

    • Victory becomes, to some degree, a state of mind. Knowing ourselves superior to the anxieties, troubles, and worries which obsess us, we are superior to them.

    • Victory is sweetest when you've known defeat.

    Thursday, October 7, 2010

    THOUGHT OF THE DAY

                                             Life
    Life is not just party and pleasure, it is also pain and despair. Unthinkable things happen. Sometimes everything turns upside down. Bad things happen to good people. Some things are beyond  control, such as physical disability and birth defects. If the ball bounced the wrong way for you.What do you do from that point on-
                            Cry or take the ball and run?

                                                   

                                                STORY

                                              The Present...

         Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation. Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing the scenes and sounds of the world outside.

         The man in the other bed began to live, for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and colour of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

         As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene. Days and weeks passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.

         As soons as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up to take his first look at the world outside. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate to describe such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to make you happy."

         The richest person in the world is one who knows how to make each moment happy for the self and others. Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present.

    Wednesday, October 6, 2010

    Motivation

                                                               Motivation
    “Good things come to those who wait ,but only those things left by those who hustle”
    Most of the people know what to do to improve their lives and achieve the best. All of them can not do so because there is something  missing  in their lives. That missing thing is motivation. Once you understand what causes motivation ,you can motivate yourself and others and achieve goals .Your internal motivation is your attitude .Your attitude is the key to getting the response you want from others. Motivation  is a driving force in our lives. It comes from a desire to succeed .Motivation is powerful. It can persuade, convince and propel  you into action. People think that motivation and inspiration are same .No, there is a big difference. Inspiration is a thought and motivation is action.

    Wednesday, September 22, 2010

    BE AN OPTIMIST.

    Be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.Talk nealth, happiness and prosperityto every person you meet.Make all your friends feel that you appreciate their good qualities and strengths.Look at the sunny side of everything