Wednesday, July 28, 2021
Monday, July 19, 2021
Tuesday, March 30, 2021
PERSONALITY
We meet hundreds of people. Some pass away unnoticeable and some force you to turn around and make a special place in your mind which compels you to meet again, to talk some more, to spend some more time with them. Why this happens? Have you ever questioned your self?
The answer is a big yes. This is their personality, the aura around them, the power of their strong character, their good looks, their inner beauty and a good sense of humour are common qualities that make them special. Everyone what’s that type of personality. To leave a mark on this world is the most powerful desire every human being have same as we. When we meet some person having a personality like that, it compiles us to imitate that person in her dressing sense, his/her appearance, the way they talk and the way they walk. They become your ideal persons.
I cannot forget my English teacher because of her overall personality; the way she talked, walked and teach. Her complexion was not fair, still, she was very smart which always made her special. There is a big list of such people who appeal to you and compiles you to become the person having a personality like them.
Everybody likes a good personality and it can be attained with some practice. It only needs some sincere efforts You have to maintain your inner beauty to improve your personality.
1.Make other people feel good in your company
2.Creat an impressive Smile
3.Be humble
4.Develop a Dressing sense.
5.Learn social skills,
Monday, March 29, 2021
LIVE YOUR DREAMS
LIVE YOUR DREAMS
live your dreams😊
1.life is beautiful☺️
2.what is stopping you from living your dreams?
a. Fear of failure?
b.Lack of Means?
c Lack of Time .?
d. Family Restrictions?
e.Money?
f.Responsibilities?
g.lack of knowledge?
h.Physical fitness?
i.Habits?
All these are blocks in the way of success. Make them the blocks to success.
MAKE EACH BLOCK THE STEP OF THE STAIRS TO SUCCESS.
Take the first step.😊☝️✍️👌💪👍
* WORK HARD IN SILENCE, LET SUCCESS MAKE THE NOISE.
1.There is no elevator to success; you have to take stairs.
a. Write down your dreams on a piece of paper and think about the ways and means you can use to reach there.
b. Make a plan and execute it
c. Once you decide, take the first step. Don,t give space to if and buts in your mind. It is like a fog. These are blocks 😟
d.Trained your mind to think according to your dreams.😌
e.Visualise your dreams at least two times in a day, once. At night when you go to bed. And second when you get up in the morning. Law of attraction would start working. You will find hundreds and hundreds of ways and means to fulfil your dreams. Some may be easy, and others may be tough. Take the most challenging course because it will give you a chance to learn more lessons. As many lessons you learn, it will make your success long-lasting. Each lesson is a step up the stairs to victory.
2. Nobody can help you because they don't knock about your dreams.
3. Nobody knows about your strengths and weaknesses.
4No body knows about your experiences, failures, blocks and restrictions, so this is only you who can manage if once determined 😀
What to do? Why do? How to do it?
Try to find the answers one by one. Once you find the solution of WHAT, then your mind would automatically start thinking WHY?. Finding a way can be a little bit difficult because your mind can stop you by giving different excuses, e.g. as you can live without that. You can't do that. It is next to impossible.
Finally, the journey to HOW starts. It's not that difficult because you have covered almost 80% of the path.
ONCE YOU START WORKING, THE WHOLE NATURE STARTS WORKING FOR YOU☺️
• Remain positive always.
• Remain concentrated
• Avoid NEGATIVELY.
• Do Meditation.
• listen to Music
• Read books and don't forget to make notes.
• Remain in the company of positive people.
• Speak less, think more.
• Keep patience.
All this will help in releasing Dopamine Harmon in your brain, which is a Feel-Good Harmon.
Friday, March 1, 2019
Wednesday, May 16, 2018
Tuesday, September 19, 2017
Avoid Negativity
The unclean pig later spoke to its friends in arrogance, “See how big I am; even the elephant was afraid of me and moved to one side to let me pass”.
On hearing this, some elephants questioned their friend, the reason for its action. Was it out of fear?
The elephant smiled and replied, “I could have easily crushed the pig under my leg, but I was clean and the pig was very dirty. By crushing it, my leg will become dirty and I wanted to avoid it. Hence, I moved aside.”
*_This story reveals :_*
_Realized souls will avoid contact with negativity not out of fear, but out of desire to keep away from impurity though they are strong enough to destroy the impurity._
_You need not react to every opinion, every comment, or every situation._
_Kick the drama and keep going ahead_
*Choose your battles wisely... Not everything deserves Ur time and attention*
Thursday, November 26, 2015
THOUGHT OF THE DAY
Anger
When some
one is angry with you ,he or she uses different methods to irritate you.
For example
You are ignored and insulted again and again.
They
don't care your presence. They follow "who cares!!" method
You are realised as
you have done some thing very wrong with them and you are the worst person in
the universe and you always do bad with them. and they are innocent in each and
every matter. they forget all the good you had done in their bad times, your love and your helping hand when they were in
pain, they were alone .They do all this just to tease you.
They praise others
whom they don't like just to let you down they pretend as they are very happy
with them.
This gives them
relief from their mental pain. while doing this they notice you from the corner
of the eyes that whether it( their behavior) is affecting you or not. they talk
in such a way as they are talking with others but pointing you. It is felt that
they hate you. But truth is entirely different it is almost opposite. They
don't apologize, but pressurise you to do the same .They love you. Your
presence gives them relief but your not talking with them gives them the pain. It is felt that it is temporary phase of
behavior. This situation brings a turn in relationship. Generally this
situation continue not for long. Some times it takes one or two minutes, one or
two hours and ends happily.there are plenty of people willing to do that with
you. don't be too hard on your self,just learn to forgive All the situations
teach you lesson.Every mistake means you are trying. touch your heart and
nourish your soul
Surround yourself with people who make you
hungry for life. Love yourself and be proud of every thing that you do.
Every mistake means
you are trying,Within you is the power to rise above any situation or struggle
and transform into the Brightest, Strongest version of you ever.
You don’t need
anyone’s affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects
or abandons or judges you, it isn’t actually about you. It’s about them and
their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don’t have to
internalize that. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s acceptance of
you — it’s something inherent. You exist, and therefore, you matter. You’re
allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You’re allowed to assert your
needs and take up space. You’re allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are
is exactly enough. And you’re allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes
you feel otherwise.
.Don't be too hard
on yourself. There are plenty of people willing to do that for you. Love
yourself and be proud of everything that you do. Even mistakes mean you're
trying. Surround yourself with people who make you hungry for life
The
pages of yesterday cann't be revised but the pages of tomorrow are blank and you hold the pen . Make it an inspiring story. Within you is the power to rise
above
any situation or
struggle and transform into the Brightest, Strongest version of you ever.
Not everything
is supposed to become something beautiful and long-lasting. Sometimes people
come into your life to show you what is right and what is wrong, to show you
who you can be, to teach you to love yourself, to make you feel better for a
little while, or to just be someone to walk with at night and spill your life
to. Not everyone is going to stay forever, and we still have to keep on going
and thank them for what they’ve given us.
I've learned
... that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've
Learned ... that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do
is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned ... that
you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time
you see them. I've learned ... that your family won't always be there for you.
It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and
love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological. I've
learned ... that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy
it
Don’t be afraid
to get back up – to try again, to love again, to live again, and to dream
again.
Don’t let a
hard lesson harden your heart.
Life’s best
lessons are often learned at the worst times and from the worst mistakes.
There will be times when it seems like
everything that could possibly go wrong is going wrong. And you might feel like
you will be stuck in this rut forever, but you won’t.
When you feel
like quitting, remember that sometimes things have to go very wrong before they
can be right.
Sometimes you
have to go through the worst, to arrive at your best.
In your
lifetime you will find and meet one person who will love you more than anybody
you have ever known and will know. They will love you with every bit of energy
and soul. They will sacrifice, surrender and give so much that it scares you.
Someday you’ll know who that is. Sometimes people realize who it was.
A monk decides to meditate alone, away from his monastery. He takes his boat out to the middle of the lake, moors it there, closes his eyes and begins his meditation.
After a few hours of undisturbed silence, he suddenly feels the bump of another boat colliding with his own. With his eyes still closed, he senses his anger rising, and by the time he opens his eyes, he is ready to scream at the boatman who dared disturb his meditation.
But when he opens his eyes, he sees it’s an empty boat that had probably got untethered and floated to the middle of the lake.
At that moment, the monk achieves self-realization, and understands that the anger is within him; it merely needs the bump of an external object to provoke it out of him.
From then on, whenever he comes across someone who irritates him or provokes him to anger, he reminds himself, “The other person is merely an empty boat. The anger is within me.”
Some useful timeless tips
1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay 'them'
2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.
3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever.. Never let the brain idle. 'An idle mind is the devil's workshop.' And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.
4. Enjoy the simple things.
5.. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.
6. The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.
7. Surround yourself with what you love , whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.
8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
9. Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.
10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER :Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
We all need to live life to its fullest each day, Worry about nothing, pray about everything!!!
Thursday, September 17, 2015
10 Valuable Life Lessons You Learnt While Growing Up Under A Working Mom
Having grown up under a working mother myself, I have learned a little bit more than just dealing with things. I have learned patience, the true definition of independence and how to safeguard it, and the importance of being respectful. But that’s not all.
1. You learned the value of staying disciplined like no one else
2. You were always independent at heart
3. You know the importance of family
4. You had no other option but to be tough
5. She taught you to fight, in just the right manner
6. She made you fix your mistakes by yourself
7. You learned to be responsible
8. You feel very strongly about gender equality
9. You gained a better perspective of the ills that continue to thrive in society
10. She is your inspiration
Friday, May 8, 2015
Tuesday, February 24, 2015
Be Happy
Be Happy
The Key to Manifesting your goals is to be in Gratitude and Appreciation at all times, which brings Happiness. As the saying goes :
There is no way to Happiness; Happiness is the way.
Thinking that you will be happy once you achieve the goal unfortunately doesn't work. The key is to BE HAPPY first and then achieve the Goal. When you are happy, the Law of Vibration works beautifully and effortlessly. If we are unhappy, we keep giving confusing signals to the Universe (Genie, Subconscious). On one moment, we are asking for our Goals, on the very next moment, we are unhappy. The Universe is confused as to what you want: the goal or unhappiness? Be happy, do your daily rituals and see the magic happen. Unleash the Power Within in the truest sense. One of easiest ways to be Happy and be in the right vibration is to be in Gratitude and Appreciation at all times.
Affirmations for the day:
I am so happy and grateful to GOD for everything he has given me. I am always happy as I work towards my goals and I trust that the goal is on the way and it will come at any moment. I appreciate everything that is around me and see the beauty .
Tuesday, July 8, 2014
COSMIC ENERGY
- Maintain the order of our life
- To lead a healthy and happy life
- To totally involve in all situations we are in
- To obtain Knowledge
- And finally
- For expansion of our Consciousness.
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Tuesday, May 13, 2014
THOUGHT OF THE DAY
In this African tribe, when someone does something harmful, they take the person to the center of the village where the whole tribe comes and surrounds them.
For two days, they will say to the man all the good things that he has done.
But sometimes, in the pursuit of these things, people make mistakes.
The community sees those mistakes as a cry for help.
They unite then to lift him, to reconnect him with his true nature, to remind him who he really is, until he fully remembers the truth of which he had been temporarily disconnected: "I am good."
Shikoba Nabajyotisaikia!
NABAJYOTISAIKIA, is a compliment used in South Africa and means: "I respect you, I cherish you. You matter to me." In response, people say SHIKOBA, which is: "So, I exist for you."
Wednesday, April 2, 2014
THOUGHT OF THE DAY
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बहुत समय पहले की बात है ,
किसी गाँव में एक किसान रहता था .
वह रोज़ भोर में उठकर दूर झरनों से स्वच्छ पानी लेने जाया करता था .
इस काम के लिए वह अपने साथ दो बड़े घड़े ले जाता था , जिन्हें वो डंडे में बाँध कर अपने कंधे पर दोनों ओर लटका लेता था . उनमे से एक घड़ा कहीं से फूटा हुआ था ,और दूसरा एक दम सही था .
इस वजह से रोज़ घर पहुँचते -पहुचते किसान के पास डेढ़ घड़ा पानी ही बच पाता था .ऐसा दो सालों से चल रहा था . सही घड़े को इस बात का घमंड था कि वो पूरा का पूरा पानी घर पहुंचता है और उसके अन्दर कोई कमी नहीं है,
वहीँ दूसरी तरफ फूटा घड़ा इस बात से शर्मिंदा रहता था कि वो आधा पानी ही घर तक पंहुचा पाता है और किसान की मेहनत बेकार चली जाती है .
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फूटा घड़ा ये सब सोच कर बहुत परेशान रहने लगा और एक दिन उससे रहा नहीं गया , उसने किसान से कहा ,
“ मैं खुद पर शर्मिंदा हूँ और आपसे क्षमा मांगना चाहता हूँ?”
“क्यों ? “ , किसान ने पूछा ,
“ तुम किस बात से शर्मिंदा हो ?”
“शायद आप नहीं जानते पर मैं एक जगह से फूटा हुआ हूँ ,
और पिछले दो सालों से मुझे जितना पानी घर पहुँचाना चाहिए था बस उसका आधा ही पहुंचा पाया हूँ , मेरे अन्दर ये बहुत बड़ी कमी है , और इस वजह से आपकी मेहनत बर्वाद होती रही है .” ,
फूटे घड़े ने दुखी होते हुए कहा.
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किसान को घड़े की बात सुनकर थोडा दुःख हुआ और वह बोला , “ कोई बात नहीं , मैं चाहता हूँ कि आज लौटते वक़्त तुम रास्ते में पड़ने वाले सुन्दर फूलों को देखो .”
घड़े ने वैसा ही किया , वह रास्ते भर सुन्दर फूलों को देखता आया , ऐसा करने से उसकी उदासी कुछ दूर हुई पर घर पहुँचते – पहुँचते फिर उसके अन्दर से आधा पानी गिर चुका था, वो मायूस हो गया और किसान से क्षमा मांगने लगा .
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किसान बोला ,” शायद तुमने ध्यान नहीं दिया पूरे रास्ते में जितने भी फूल थे वो बस तुम्हारी तरफ ही थे ,
सही घड़े की तरफ एक भी फूल नहीं था .
ऐसा इसलिए क्योंकि मैं हमेशा से तुम्हारे अन्दर की कमी को जानता था ,
और मैंने उसका लाभ उठाया . मैंने तुम्हारे तरफ वाले रास्ते पर रंग -बिरंगे फूलों के बीज बो दिए थे ,
तुम रोज़ थोडा-थोडा कर के उन्हें सींचते रहे और पूरे रास्ते को इतना खूबसूरत बना दिया .
आज तुम्हारी वजह से ही मैं इन फूलों को भगवान को अर्पित कर पाता हूँ और अपना घर सुन्दर बना पाता हूँ . तुम्ही सोचो अगर तुम जैसे हो वैसे नहीं होते तो भला क्या मैं ये सब कुछ कर पाता ?”
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#MORAL :-
" दोस्तों हम सभी के अन्दर कोई ना कोई कमी होती है , पर यही कमियां हमें अनोखा बनाती हैं . "
उस किसान की तरह हमें भी हर किसी को वो जैसा है वैसे ही स्वीकारना चाहिए और उसकी अच्छाई की तरफ ध्यान देना चाहिए,
और जब हम ऐसा करेंगे तब “फूटा घड़ा” भी “अच्छे घड़े” से मूल्यवान हो जायेगा.
THOUGHT OF THE DAY
God!!
God was sitting in heaven one day when a scientist said to Him, “God, we don’t need you anymore. Science has finally figured out a way to create life out of nothing – in other words, we can now do what you did in the beginning.
“Oh, is that so? Tell Me…” replies God.
“Well,” says the scientist, “we can take dirt and form it into the likeness of you and breathe life into it, thus creating man.”
“Well, that’s very interesting…show Me.”
So the scientist bends down to the earth and starts to mold the soil into the shape of a man.
“No, no, no…” interrupts God, “Get your own dirt.”
Mother
A Woman was admitted in a hospital as she was suffering from Brain Tumor. Her son & relatives were around her. She died within a few HoursI know you catch a cold easily after crying..LOVE MUM
No matter in what condition mothers are…they always care about their children
KINDLY RESPECT AND LOVE YOUR MOTHER
A BEAUTIFUL WAY OF LOOKING AT THINGS.
A Father was reading a magazine and his little daughter every now and then distracted him. To keep her busy, he tore one page on which was printed the map of the world. He tore it into pieces and asked her to go to her room and put them together to make the map again.He was sure she would take the whole day to get it done. But the little one came back within minutes with perfect map……When he asked how she could do it so quickly, she said, “Oh…. Dad, there is a man’s face on the other side of the paper….. I made the face perfect to get the map right.” She ran outside to play leaving the father surprised.
MORAL OF THE STORY:
There is always the other side to whatever you experience in this world. Whenever we come across a challenge or a puzzling situation, look at the other side…. You will be surprised to see an easy way to tackle the problem.
Thursday, March 27, 2014
10 reasons why you should drink green
It’s official that tea is good for your health. So go ahead and relish that hot cup of green tea to realize its power and enjoy its numerous health benefits.
Helps you lose weight
If you want to cut those extra inches around your tummy, switching to green tea could be a simpler way. A new study shows that green tea extract increases the rate of calorie burning by the body. It reduces blood fat, cholesterol, bloated ness, detoxifies the body and suppresses untimely food cravings. Enabled with diuretic properties, it also eliminates excess water and thereby reduces excess weight. So the best way to get rid of that paunch is to have green tea along with the right amount of bodily exercise.
Boosts exercise endurance
According to scientists, antioxidants present in green tea extracts increase body’s ability to burn fat as fuel which accounts for improved muscle endurance. It also enhances energy levels and boosts your metabolism.
Reduces the risk of heart attack
Drinking green tea rapidly improves the health of body cells lining the blood vessels and also helps in lowering one`s risk for heart disease.The flavonoids present in this tea protect the heart by relaxing the blood vessels so blood can flow more easily.So,protect your heart and have green tea on a regular basis.
Fights against various cancers
The antioxidants in tea helps protect against a shipload of cancers, including breast, colon, colorectal, skin, lung, esophagus, stomach, small intestine, pancreas, liver, ovarian, prostate and oral cancers. Green tea extract is reported to induce cancer cell death and starve tumours by curbing the growth of new blood vessels that feed them.
Hydration benefits
If you love drinking green tea then there is good news for you.Contrary to common belief that tea dehydrates,green tea provides hydration benefits similar to water.Tea not only rehydrates as well as water does, it also has many other health benefits.
Protection from harmful ultraviolet rays
The sun’s UV rays in summer act as a constant threat. Green tea is rich in antioxidants that scavenge harmful free radicals in the body according to researches. Also using green tea extracts along with your sunscreen could afford you the greatest level of sun protection.
Keeps Diabetes in check
Green tea can do wonders to a person suffering from diabetes.Green tea apparently helps regulate glucose levels slowing the rise of blood sugar. It also triggers and stimulates insulin production and activates the functioning of pancreas to some extent.Blood sugar level in the body is also normalized and regularized by the use of green tea.
Polyphenols in green tea may help maintain the parts of brain that regulate learning and memory. So, regular consumption of green tea could help in prevention of degenerative and neurological diseases like Alzheimer’s and Parkinson`s.
Anti- Ageing benefits
Antioxidants found in green tea fight free radicals thereby keeping a check on ageing and promoting longevity.Because it contains high levels of oligomeric proanthocyanidins one of the most powerful antioxidants, Green Tea is thought to help slow down the premature ageing process.
Boosts your immunity
Polyphenols and Flavonoids present in green tea boost the immune system to make the human body stronger in fighting various infections. Also, Vitamin C present in green tea keeps cold and flu away.
Wednesday, March 26, 2014
THOUGHT OF THE DAY
THOUGHT OF THE DAY
A small story on importance of valuing relationships
Just as the door bell rang she ran to find her husband wet and smiling with a bunch of flowers in his hand. The two started re-living the old days. Making up for fights, then was d plan for champagne, light music And it was raining outside! It was perfect.
But the moment paused when the phone in the bedroom rang.
Aisha went to pick it up and it was a man. “Hello ma’am I’m calling from the police station. Is this Mr Rajiv Mehra’s number?”
Aisha’s heart sank.!!! She was shocked! But my husband is here with me?”
“Sorry ma’am, but the incident took place at 2 pm, when he was boarding the train.”
Aisha was about to lose her conscience. How could this happen?!
She had heard about the soul of the person coming to meet a loved one before it leaves!
She ran into the other room. He was not there. It was true! had left her for good!!
Oh God she would have died for another chance to mend every little fight! She rolled on the floor in pain. She lost her chance! Forever!
Suddenly there was a noise from the bathroom, the door opened and Rajiv came out and said “Darling, I forgot to tell you my wallet got stolen today”.
LIFE MIGHT NOT GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE. SO NEVER WASTE A MOMENT WHEN YOU CAN STILL MAKE UP FOR YOUR WRONGS!!!
Let’s start making amends.
To parents
To siblings
To friends
And many more.
No one has a promised tomorrow. Have a wonderful Life with no regrets!
THOUGHT OF THE DAY
A wonderful short story :: How can we be HAPPY?
Suddenly the speaker stopped and decided to do a group activity. He started giving each one a balloon. Each one was asked to write his/her name on it using a marker pen. Then all the balloons were collected and put in another room.
Now these delegates were let in that room and asked to find the balloon which had their name written, within 5 minutes. Everyone was frantically searching for their name, colliding with each other, pushing around others and there was utter chaos.
At the end of 5 minutes no one could find their own balloon.
Now each one was asked to randomly collect a balloon and give it to the the person whose name was written on it.
Within minutes everyone had their own balloon.
The speaker began— Exactly this is happening in our lives. Everyone is frantically looking for happiness all around, not knowing where it is.
Our happiness lies in the happiness of other people. Give them their happiness, you will get your own happiness.
And this is the purpose of human life.
Is this not what you are looking for?
